The year 2024 in my life
To start off 2025, I thought I’d give you a memoir writing sample of my own work. This doesn’t really work as a chapter, because I tweaked and adapted it from my annual holiday letter. But it might give you some ideas about infusing humor and weaving a theme throughout a story arc. I changed the family names.
Chapter Sample
The Year 2024
I fractured my right foot’s fifth metatarsal the day after Thanksgiving 2024 to end the year on a low note. As always, life was presenting a learning curve, and I vowed never again to break my own rule about switching on a light when walking at night through a rented house with a sunken living room.
We were in Chicago at the time, once again gathering the immediate and some extended family to enjoy late autumn until it devolved into 14-degree weather. The cold of the north can look good next to—counting backwards for Sarasota alone—Hurricane Milton, Hurricane Helene and Tropical Storm Debbie. Early one October day had me watching, from the safety of a hotel room west of Miami, Milton slamming straight into Sarasota. Our house weathered the weather, while a couple of our tall trees and some fencing were not as fortunate.
As Hurricane Milton raged, Rita was at her D.C. office, breathlessly monitoring the storm tracker. “Wait, that’s my street!” she exclaimed as the map showed the eye of the hurricane looming directly above our neighborhood. When the skies calmed, Rita returned her attention to matters in her government job in food security, where her learning curve had to do with crops and soils in various climates. This did not help her figure out why I couldn’t find a decent locally grown orange in the Orange State.
In my continual learning about hurricanes, I was informed that flooding on our street was unlikely, since it stretched between a manmade reservoir and a main road’s drain and was engineered to send the standing water to one or the other, plus we were situated too far from the coast to be affected by a storm surge. Wind, though, was always a worry.
And well before hurricane season, there was always humidity. I would try to get away, so in August when Judith and Chris sold their sweet Boston home of 12 years and moved not far away to a newer house with space for me to stay with them, I immediately flew up there for a few days. They appreciated my help during parents’ dreaded black hole—the weeks between camp and school, where eventually Sophie entered third grade and Cody started fifth. They didn’t have to change schools; in fact, their school was just steps from their new house.
Our relationship grew closer in 2024, when the kids took to video chatting on their own with me. Sophie liked sending memes of herself as a cat, while Cody mostly grunted “I don’t know” in response to my questions, just as he would do in person. It came with the 11-year-old territory. In the fall, Sophie got into the habit of ringing me up early as she prepared for her day. One morning, when Judith reminded her daughter that it was time to go to school, Sophie said she needed a minute. “I’m on a call,” she explained. When I supported her mom’s direction that she’d better leave soon, Sophie held her iPad up to the window so I could see the outside. “Grandma,” she countered, “the school is right there.”
We knew that Paul was popular with the kids, but we hadn’t pinned down a reason until Judith related the deliberation Cody and Sophie had when their parents were serving them ice cream. “Should we have two regular scoops or two ‘granddads’?” Cody asked his sister, referring to the term they apparently used when they wanted the supersized portions Paul doles out during their Florida visits.
Anna and Dylan were stretching the honeymoon phase of married bliss. After a decade of working alongside her dad, Anna floated her résumé for in-house counsel jobs and in January began working remotely as senior counsel at a California-based fintech firm. I had to google “fintech,” even though Judith coded in that sector for years. Blame my neverending learning curve in tech. And in fin. Paul was so impressed when Anna was offered the job—impressed with himself, of course. “Being my associate attorney can really take you places!” he concluded.
Paul missed his former associate and had to do all the work himself, but he took breaks by continuing to play on two old-man softball teams, each with a weekly double-header. There also was our Senior Games training. With my bum foot I was glad we didn’t wait for Florida’s December games to qualify for the following summer’s Nationals but, instead, earned our qualifying medals in South Carolina and Georgia. At the South Carolina games’ javelin event, one competitor in my age group had never thrown before. Paul coached her a little, offering tips and correcting her movements. And then she beat me. I gave my husband the silent treatment, while he contended that it was my own fault, because despite my steep learning curve in javelin, I never listened to his advice.
In late June, while the others opted out, Paul, Rita, Anna and I spent time in the ancient ruins of Rome and Pompeii. Paul loved every minute of watching all he’d read about come to life. The Vatican, the Colosseum, the Pantheon—everything was fascinating. Having studied there one college semester, Anna made all the plans—from the nightly restaurants to designing our walking route so we’d pass the Trevi Fountain precisely at dusk to driving us to Pompeii in a rental car she’d prebooked from a company owned by “some guy online.” Sounded reliable.
Then Anna returned home while the three of us continued on to Bologna, one of few Italian spots Rita had never visited. She wanted to learn something new, so we hopped a train and then took a walking tour of what turned out to be an interesting city. From there we went to Modena to see the Ferrari Museum with a lot of cool cars and the home of Pavarotti, where his opera costumes were displayed along with the Emmy awards he’d received for some PBS specials. It was fun to see Emmys up close.
It was on this trip that our learning curve really climbed. Not only did we pick up information about Italy and of course wine, but we discovered we needed to get better in touch with our bodies. I thought I was sensitive to the extreme heat because it was drier there than on the Gulf Coast, and I couldn’t get enough water in me even when surrounded by an aqueduct. But when we arrived home, a little test told Rita and me that we’d been walking around with Covid, which Rita had brought with her from Washington. Paul stayed Covid-free, and Anna felt fine as well. But a completely different type of test revealed that in Italy Anna was, as they say, just a little bit pregnant. She and Dylan ended the year looking forward to a baby due the following March.